A few hours ago it was loud here.

Shouts of joy, questions, and last days of school excitement turned to screams

Dilemma #3: Genuinely Distracted Join our community in helping folks solve this dilemma (I am no longer doing this formally through my website, but if you have questions, see my All the Links page to ask them on any site where I’m participating regularly.) “No matter how hard I try, …

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Criticism is not force. Over on @tblizzy’s Tiktok, she has been doing a lot of amazing accomplice work with transfolk. She has been standing up for them against an onslaught of straight men who got extremely fragile and angry in her comments. They claimed she was “forcing” them to date …

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In case you were wondering what “enthusiastic consent” looks like. What enthusiastic consent looks like: Ready?In a minute.Yet?Not quite.Yet?Yes!Like this? Or this?Both, and neither. Like this. Like this?Oh yes? And is this the way, or this?Oh, this. Oh, THIS!More? or Less?More! oh, oh. Oops. I meant less.My turn? Please?Of course. …

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